So today is no different than when you were in the Sixth grade? Minorities are treated the same as they were then? voluntary integration date suggest precisely when you were in the sixth grade. The hatred of which you speak is, WITHOUT A DOUBT, taught/learned on BOTH SIDES of the racial spectrum. If you cannot acknowledge that, then further exchanges are unnecessary. I have grown children who have kids in their teens and I do not see any of what you are suggesting. Furthermore, explain this to me. I have a close family member who is a reasonably accomplished high school basketball coach. A few years ago, there were two jobs for which he decided to apply. The athletic director in both and separate incidences, told him that, regardless of his resume, a black coach had to be hired. At that moment, was his white privilege showing?