Ok I guess everybody forgot I am on this board. Now I am trying to be cordial about this because it's more f up things to this situation that goes beyond what side of story you get to hear. Yes Tavian was wrong, but when a kid who never had any trouble in school start acting out there something more going on. What point did parent was told of kid action, none parent found out on own. They said he is a adult no he is a kid. Who cares if this kid is watching his parents separate. Who cares if that kid saw his black teammate get pushed aside but, another white kid get accepted back who had same violations as you. Not making racial but putting where my son mind frame was. To any adults if you see a kid falling rather they play sports or not, go to their parents try to help them. Please don't assume they are a adult and can handle things, their are grown adults who struggle in life. Now what I told my son is all things in this world isn't forgiven, but it's only a obstacle in life. Learn from it and move on you will be ok.