You’re so right. One family is dealing with a dead son. I know that feeling all too well. The loss of a child has to be the most challenging thing to bear. It will never go away, but time helps heal. The other family is having to deal with their son murdering a young man. I understand wanting to defend his actions, but to blame the dead victim is beyond my comprehension. We all have to be held accountable for our own actions. If not, justice can never be served and none of us are safe.