There's a couple of ways to look at this situation: In a conversation it takes at least 2 parties. One of the participants may have spilled the beans. This may be how it become a conversation topic on other forums. Another, the kid hasn't said anything. If true, and it doesn't work out, then it would be embarrassing. But finally, his BigBro could come on here and put an end to all of this by two words -- NOT TRUE! But the mere silence of the BigBro may tell/speak volumes!